Why I’m quitting twitter/facebook
As an experiment I recently loaded up everything I was planning on doing this summer into a todo list application. And I mean everything - I created recurring tasks for driving to work, going to church on Sundays, and eating food. In addition I added the traditional things as well - work tasks, ideas I had for work, ideas I had for random stories, people I needed to contact every few months, etc. I did this to free my mind from the constant interrupt-based thinking that happens with these things. As I created these I was very honest with myself - I went to extremes to try to look outside myself and see what I was actually doing.
Driving home and during other idle times my mind is a constant state of poking around ideas like:
- Maybe it should be an interface instead of a base implementation, that would be more generic.
- I need to call John about eating lunch
- Maybe we should go to Moe’s, but not the one on Old Milton, the one on Windward
- The emissions on the car still need to be done before August
- I need another set of eyebrows to catch the sweat from my other eyebrows
What prompted this inventory was the fact that I had some pretty big goals for this summer - move to a new team, learn some new technologies, train for two large cycling events, go on a big trip.
After doing this “open valve” for 2 weeks I went back and looked at what all I was doing and noticed two tasks:
- Check Facebook x3 daily
- Check Twitter x20 daily
I also noticed that during the time that is the most important in the day [the time in which my part cannot be played by anyone else] I was still thinking like this and doing some of the recurring tasks like checking twitter on my phone.. There have been many times where instead of focusing on what my wife is saying or what my kids are doing I was thinking about something that I couldn’t be doing right then or checking twitter/facebook. In addition during times of true idleness I was filling it with unfocused internet browsing and other wastes.
That sounds a bit like an addiction - so I tried another experiment. What would I lose if I cut it all off? Turns out the list is appealing, but not like I thought it would be. I would miss:
- Some jokes at work
- Some information on stuff that I like (such as information on cycling)
- Some information on stuff that I need (such as road construction)
- Fast meme tracking
None of these things are as important as what they were taking away:
- Being 100% present with my kids and wife
- Being 100% present during idle times to think about things and create things
So I’m turning it all off as much as I can - rather than being a massive consumer of information I’m pulling my shades and am going to do more writing and less reading, and maybe just less reading in total. This feels very right/true to me - do you remember when people used to walk down the street and not listen to music? I bet they heard some cool stuff and were more present in their world, and a lot of good ideas probably came to them during that time. But now Katy Perry has ruined it all. Anyway, cya.